“These schools have had a long lasting impact. My grandmother was a residential school survivor… She became an alcoholic and lost her children to foster care for some time including my own mother. These schools instilled in my grandmother a very rigid strict militaristic type of bearing. This was because of how she was treated in the school. She in turn raised her children the same way the school raised her with Fear and violent discipline. My mother was raised this way and in turn she raised me the same way. As a young man I joined the Army. I found it to be very easy for me. The yelling did not bother me. Their threats seemed empty and hollow to me. It wasn’t until I was much older and my grandmother and mother had passed away that I realized that the residential school was the root cause of my family dysfunction and addiction. It was the reason the military was easy for me…. They stripped my people of their own ways of raising their children and families and replaced it with trauma, violence, and fear… It continues to haunt Indigenous families to this day. The addiction and violent dysfunction that can be traced back to these schools and the violent assimilation of an entire generation of our children. This is why when someone says to me “well I didn’t do any of this, my ancestors did it-not me, and it’s not happening now so why does it matter?” I think… “But it does matter… It has effected even me-a child born in 1983. This history is not so far away for me. It’s just sad, all of it. I hope one day we can all truly love one another as human beings and prosper…” -Survivor
The Path Forward:
We invite you to watch the following interview with Senator Murray Sinclair, Former Senator and Chair of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission: WARNING: This story contains distressing details. Former Senator and Chair of the Truth and Reconciliation Commission, Murray Sinclair, Former member of the Canadian Senate, First Nations Lawyer and Former Chair of the TRC talks to The National’s Adrienne Arsenault about the steps Canada needs to take on the path toward reconciliation“We have described for you a mountain. We have shown you the way to the top. We call upon you to do the climbing.”